How To Date Women – Dating Secrets For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Have you considered that dinner and then a movie is only one aspect of dating a woman?

Going out and doing stuff with the girl. Getting to know her, and all that jazz.

Consider for a moment that this is a misconception about dating.

See, most guys use the concept of “going out” with a girl to mean that there is some romantic ulterior motive there, and that is not always the case.

Here is a small list of some of the more common mistakes a man can make while dating a woman.

Mistake #1: Dates are only to make a good impression.

Lots of guys think they have something to prove on dates. They “have to get her to like me!” So they’ll try and take her to fancy places to show her a memorable time, and they’ll try and brag about themselves to come off as important.

Mistake #2: Guys think they can buy their way into a woman’s heart.

This is not a good idea, since you cannot spend enough money on a woman to encourage them to keep dating you. The majority of women today could care less how much you might spend on a date with them.

Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!

Since spending time together does not equal a romantic interest, going out with someone does not mean as much as you would think it does, therefore, doing the dinner and a movie date, does not mean the girl will be attracted to you.

Mistake #4: Men become boring!

Nothing is worse than going out on a date where there is no spark or chemistry. Some guys get so nervous on dates, that they sabotage themselves by being a boring dud. They talk about mundane things, display little or no personality, and just go through the motions hoping not to screw anything up.

Mistake #5: Following a pattern for failure.

Some men think dates should go a certain way, they have their own ideas of how things are suppose to turn out, they then follow the same strict pattern of failure. They always go to the same places, while asking their dates the same questions they have asked all the other women they have dated. There is no fun or natural impulses offered into their interactions.

What does it mean to go on dates with a woman?

The answer is simple; dating is a means of encouraging and building comfort, attraction and emotional connections.

See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.

This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.

Learn to rephrase your questions, rather than wanting to know where she works, ask her some interesting and fun questions, such as If you could do anything you wish, what would you wish to do?

Just have fun and enjoy yourself!

Crack jokes – even if they’re not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

But most importantly, don’t shy away from sex!

Although many men shy away from approaching the subject of relationships while on a date, you should build the intensity of attraction by building toward that.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON’T do it, you won’t be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.

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The Art Of Flirting – How To Flirt With Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Let me ask you a question…

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

What is the importance of flirting?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

No sexual tension equals no attraction, when there is not attraction, what does this make you?

Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.

So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.

Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

Mixed signals are what this is.

You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding rejection from the woman.

MISTAKE #2: They Aren’t Obvious Enough!

On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!

MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Themselves Too Seriously

Flirting, when done right, is light and fun. When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what’s the right way to start flirting?

You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

So for instance, if you’re at a bar, and the girl you’re with orders a drink and then turns to you and asks if you’d like something, you could jokingly say – “You’re not trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me, are you?” (Of course, this is said with a wink and a nod.)

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don’t do that on the first date.

See how that works?

After you begin flirting more often, you will begin to be more apparent concerning your interests, without ever crossing that line.

As you do this, you’ll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

Now the real fun begins.

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Christian Dating Advice For Men

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Balancing our beliefs and desires is an ever acting characteristic in a humans life, we strive do this all the time.

We all struggle as men with our faith and urges; however, we can learn how to fit these two qualities together, by learning new perspectives.

It is natural to want to stay true to what we believe in. And for most Christian men, it is important that love occur within the boundaries of church.

Sex during marriage only is one of those boundaries.

Whether we follow it or not, there are validities of free will choices at work here and it is not for us to judge this belief.

Ancient philosophy informs us that partaking of sex with one another mingles a piece of our soul with the other and then continues with us forever.

The doctrine to keep your virginity for your wife is a wise one, when you consider this in some respect.

But this presents a unique challenge for those men out there who wish to stay true to their faith.

To enable yourself to continue attracting a woman, while fostering a relationship as you wait for marriage is achievable, however, you must take note of a few perspectives.

Sex is important after all, since marriage to someone sexually incompatible is a difficult union for anyone.

Here is some advice I’ve come up with specifically for men who face this issue of romance vs. faith.

1. Be clear about what you believe.

Faith guides us throughout our lifetime, is essential that you are clear in where you place your faith and beliefs.

We all have free will, the ability to think and reason, this is God’s gift to us. We look at all our options while deciding which path we each take. Some of us take it all in and keep what teaching reverberates within our higher self, while others embrace all of their churches teachings.

Your choice is your own; however, you must be clear of your belief and stand strong.

2. Trust in the plan God has for you.

You must trust in the fact that there is a woman out there you are meant to be with, and God has a plan to unite you with her.

Since you have free will, you have to take action while striving to take advantage of all opportunities presented to you. Remember, God can only do so much.

Learn to be proactive in finding the right woman for you.

Going out to meet women, getting to know them and dating are not things that just happen unexpectedly. You have to make it happen. Your beliefs help you stay on the plan for your life.

3. Know that Virginity is not mystical or precious.

You must understand that sex is a natural act, such as walking, talking and taking in air; it is something that we do. Sometimes the way some individuals consider virginity is confusing and unbalanced.

Man was meant to be fruitful and multiply. Sex is one of the greatest gifts we have from God. It is pleasurable because he meant for us to have sex.

So to look at your virginity as something sacred is not helpful. Virginity is meant to be lost – the real challenge is finding the right person to lose it to!

In the end, there is a spiritual aspect to sex. It’s the aspect that you find someone who makes you feel whole, alive, and loved. This is something separate from the act of sex, because this touches you on a deeper level.

Striving to achieve this type of closeness before marriage is most helpful in determining whether your physical aspects are in tune with a woman.

Do not be afraid to be intimate with women! Kissing, hugging, touching – this is all fine. But sharing your hopes and dreams, staring deep into her eyes and feeling her inner-most desires… that is where true intimacy stems from.

4. Women are real and do not belong on a pedestal.

Because of the importance places on sex in your faith, it might be easy to artificially inflate a woman’s importance.

You may think of a woman as some delicate flower goddess that is treated special and treasured.

But women are no different from me. God cut us both from the same cloth. To treat a woman as though she is special, just because you are sexually attracted to her, is not the same as respecting her.

Loving an ideal is easy, although it is difficult at times to love reality. Remember women too get cranky when hungry, awakens with morning breath and asks you to take out the garbage. This is reality.

Being human, we share similar characteristics. We must learn to love the reality of women rather than idealizing them.

When we see girls as people, just like us, we are able to get a clearer picture of whether or not we are meant to be with them.

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Pick Up Lines That Work – How To Start A Conversation

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Some pick up lines are just terrible.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

“Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them.”

Let’s face it – if you use lines like these on a girl, she’s not going to give you the time of day.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

And this just isn’t true.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.

That is all.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.

Because you shouldn’t just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I’d miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

That is why it’s important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can’t be original, you need something to help you take action!

But don’t be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why is this?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid’s zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.

This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:

1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships

The places you can go with this type of line are limitless. Here are some of my favorite follow-ups.

“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

“What sign are you?” (this leads into your sign compatibility with her – HINT: no matter what her sign is, you’re compatible!)

“What do you think of children? You seem like the mothering type.”

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.

This is how you begin conversations.

At this point, it’s the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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Even If You Are Ugly, You Can Attract Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

One of the biggest issues I have to deal with when it comes to my students is the idea that they are too ugly to attract women.

Their insecurity comes from their various aspects and natures, such as some of them think they may be too:

Some guys think they’re too old.

They could be too fat.

They could be too short.

Some think they’re too ugly.

Many men feel hopeless when it comes to attracting the woman they desire, because of such feelings.

But lucky for all of us – this simply isn’t the case.

I want to take a moment and dispel a few attraction myths that hold men back from achieving success in their love life.

Myth #1 – Women are only attracted to good looking men.

Take a good look around and take not of the different types of men who date attractive women, and you can see this is not true.

Of course it is essential to look good, however, it you do not have to be good looking.

What’s the difference?

Although you cannot control whether you are good looking or not, however you do have control of how you present yourself. You do control how you groom and the clothes you wear, your hairstyle, how you smell and so on.

All these appearance factors contribute to “looking good.”

Even the most average looking guy can be attractive when he takes control of his appearance.

Myth #2 – Women Think Just As Men Do

Naturally, you and I think that everyone else sees the same things the same way in which we see others.

Take for instance that huge pimple on your forehead, you think everyone notices it, although it is beneath the skin and no one knows it is there besides you.

Very few people if any will notice, while to you it is obvious.

Keep in mind that this method is generally in use when it comes to assessing any individual. Based on her looks you judge a woman, while sizing the woman up visually and then you decide if you think she is attractive, right.

So naturally, you assume women are going to size you up the same exact way.

WRONG.

Women have different criteria for determining attraction than men do. That’s not to say they don’t care if a man is attractive or not. But they don’t place as much importance on physical characteristics as us guys do.

To women, attraction is based more around how men make them feel, rather than how the men look. That is why women are attracted to confidence and social status. They’re attracted to men who make them laugh. They’re attracted to men who are good at what they do. See how this works? Looks have very little to do with any of this.

Myth #3 – Women Notice Our Insecurities

Since we know our own selves, much better than anyone in the world ever will, we easily find and pay attention to our every single shortcoming, such as our receding hairline, weak chin, and our big ears and nose and so on.

No matter what it is, we see it!

Since we see our flaws, we naturally presume that others do too, when in fact the majority of people do not pay attention. Unless that is, they look especially for some characteristic to hold against you. Most fret over their own insecurities whatever they may be, without noticing yours.

Many men may call attention to their shortcomings while trying to dismiss and diffuse the things that make them feel insecure. Consequently, all this type of behavior does is managing to call the attention of the woman to the area of insecurity; otherwise, she may not even notice it.

Keep in mind that insecurities and anxiety are completely unattractive.

In order for your positive qualities to outshine those that you find negative, you must always face every situation with a focus on your good qualities rather than any insecurity.

Myth #4 – Attractive Men Have It Easy

This is probably the biggest myth there is – that if a guy is good looking, girls will automatically flock to him.

Those men have their own set of problems with women. Clearly in the beginning being attractive physically does help, however they have the same issues as the rest of us.

Attraction is the art of magnifying the emotional connection that a woman feels for you, when you are around, this connection will only occur when you are around her, therefore to feel those feelings she will want you to be around her.

When a man matches the physical type of man, a woman prefers she naturally gravitates towards him, simply because those features appeal to her. Those feelings go away if she considers the man to be incompatible, a jerk or a bore.

However, if you take a guy that the woman maybe isn’t initially physically attracted to, and then have him make her experience feelings of fun, excitement, and pleasure – she WILL become attracted to him eventually.

Others want to be around you when you make them feel good; this is one of the basics of attraction.

Being a good looking man does not mean, you make women feel good. You simply need to learn how to mingle and interact with women.

This equation has a second factor and that is of sexual attraction.

This is the ability to turn a woman on, as well as making her feel good while you are around them.

This is where the aspect of seduction comes into play.

When you begin to lead a woman down the path of sexual attraction, even if you don’t look like Brad Pitt, she’s going to begin to see you in a whole new light – despite any of the shortcomings you may think you have.

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How To Meet Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Here are a few easy to follow steps you can use to meet women that makes the process of meeting women fun and easy!

I have a question…

(And you have to be honest with me here!)

Do you find meeting women difficult? Is your fear keeping you from taking the actions you need to meet women, and causing you to feel lonely and helpless?

If so, don’t worry. I’m going to give you some incredible bits of advice you can use that will help you meet great women, and help you to take control of your love life and overcome your fear!

Meeting women should be a piece of cake. After all, that’s what you’re biologically programmed for, right?

Wrong.

Despite what you might think and what others may tell you, the fact is that us men are not born already knowing how to naturally meet and attract women. (Believe me, I wish that WAS the case, but its not, unfortunately.)

Meeting women is a LEARNED social behavior.

You have to LEARN how to talk to women, just like you have to learn how to speak out loud, or walk, or do math.

It’s a SKILL. And skills are learned, not instinctual.

So if you currently don’t know how to meet women, don’t worry, there is NOTHING wrong with you! You just haven’t learned enough to make meeting women something that’s comfortable and easy yet.

Unfortunately, there are many guys out there who’s fear of meeting women keeps them home alone on Friday night, and most of them will NEVER do what’s necessary to overcome that fear and meet women.

That’s because they don’t realize the power that fear has over them! And they rationalize their fear of meeting women by imagining all of the bad things that could happen.

Some guys have such a dim view of themselves as attractive men that they think a girl they’re interested in is going to laugh at them, or dismiss them, or tell them off. Maybe she’ll throw her drink in their face, or maybe they’ll get beaten up by her boyfriend!

Do you ever think of these as possibilities before you meet a girl? Because if you do, then you are actually TRAINING yourself to be scared and take no action to meet women.

Bottom line: You are practicing FAILURE.

The fact is – most of these irrational fears you’re worried about hardly ever happen in real life.

Those fears often come from experiences men suffered in junior high or middle school, when they were starting to become sexually aware and got rejected a few times – or they saw stuff like this happen on TV, and they think it actually applies to their own life.

It is highly unfortunate that so many men let irrational fears shape their beliefs and attitudes about how to meet and date women that they keep to this very day!

In contrast, there are other men out there who were fortunate enough to have positive experiences with girls early on in their development. These experiences helped banish irrational fears about meeting women, which helped set them up for a lot of success with women as they got older.

But here’s some good news – even if you weren’t a lucky “early bloomer,” you are still able to take control of any fear you may have about meeting women. Just because you didn’t have early success, doesn’t mean you can’t still be extremely successful with the ladies!

What you need to start doing right now is re-learn how to talk to women, and you’ll have to be willing to re-examine your current beliefs and attitudes that might be holding you back from success and change them to make meeting women easier.

Understandably, this is difficult for most guys to do. It’s one thing to say “I want to meet women,” but the hard part is taking action and DOING it! You need to ask yourself how badly do you want to improve, and if you’re willing to do the work.

Do you want to be the kind of guy who let’s every opportunity with women pass him by because he’s too scared to take it?

When you see an attractive woman you’d like to meet, just start talking to her, even if you don’t know what to say.

Ask her for directions. Ask for her opinion on something. Playfully tease her about something she’s wearing or something she’s doing.

At least make an effort to take an interest in her and be curious about who she is as a person. Pay her a genuine and sincere compliment! What do you have to lose?

Quickly settle on the what to say – don’t worry about the words you’re going to use – and go over there and talk to her. Don’t let more than three seconds pass by. Make the decision to act and follow through. (It will help you in the future if you memorize some canned material that matches your personality.)

Don’t try and measure success based on if you got her phone number or a date. Just the simple act of approaching a woman and talking to her makes you a winner, because you did something that 80% of the other men out there wouldn’t have done! And the more you can do that, the greater your chances of meeting that one special woman.

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Learn To Approach Any Woman

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

The single most important skill every man should have is knowing how to approach women, because if you don’t know how to do this, you’re going to be at a serious disadvantage when it comes to meeting your dream girl…

It’s important that you know how to approach a girl the right way. Let’s go over some tactics that will help you to be more successful than the average guy.

Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?

It wasn’t anything you were about to say, or even your intentions. She might have really liked you if you approached her in a different way. But once you freak out a girl, it’s not easy to turn that situation around.

The key to approaching women is to approach them in a NON-THREATENING manner that does not telegraph your interest.

This is known as “coming in under the radar.”

You have to understand that most attractive women get hit on CONSTANTLY, so they’ve trained themselves to simply reject guys at the first sign they’re out to pick them up.

Most men don’t realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don’t want to deal with yet “another pick-up attempt.”

Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.

So what’s the right way to approach a woman?

The first secret is – DO NOT HESITATE!

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you’re never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it’s important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Secondly, know what you’re going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don’t have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.

When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven “pick up line” memorized that will help start a conversation.

Now, when I use the term “pick up line,” I don’t mean the “Nice shirt, want to have sex?” type of line that’ll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!

The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions.

Another thing – when you are approaching women, don’t charge in like you’re going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.

Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That’s why it’s so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you’re talking to girls!

If you’re not comfortable approaching women, the best way to overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?

The sad fact is, you’re not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news – it gets easier the more you do it!)

If you’re worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you’re doing is approaching women. You’re not asking her out, you’re not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.

That’s it!

This is a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the easier it is. See how many you can talk to in a day and keep trying to beat your score.

Finally, use a “time constraint” when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you’ve only got a minute to talk to her because you’ve got to get back to your friends or whatever you’re doing.

Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you’re talking to, because she won’t feel that she’s committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you’re only a momentary “distraction.” This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.

The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she’ll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.

Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.

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Secrets On How To Pick Up Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…

First off – here’s what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T need to be “male model” good looking.

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.

Another thing is – you DON’T need to spend lots of cash or drive flashy cars!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)

If a girl really likes you, she’s not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?

Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you’re currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics – after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you’ve learned, you’ll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you’re able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you’re starting out. You don’t have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but there is no better “practice ground” in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

No matter what – if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you’ll get!

When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it’ll be.

And what you’re doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!

When you’re going out to pick up women and gain experience, it’s important to look as good as you possibly can!

(Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)

Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you’re not into fashion and don’t know where to start, ask a female friend who’s very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.

Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory – you don’t NEED to do it. However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you’ll feel!

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don’t let it pass you by!

Remember – ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there’s a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

Here’s the structure:

Find the girl.

Meet her.

Start Talking and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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Top Product: Art Of Approaching

Website: www.artofapproaching.com
Author: Joseph Matthews
Company: Bizlancer Inc.
Rating: 4 1/2 out of 5

By the time I stumbled onto the Art Of Approaching, I had already been scammed a number of times in the Men’s Dating Advice market. I was bitter, angry, and ready to give up.

That’s why it was such a pleasant surprise when I found myself actually ENJOYING a book that was designed to teach me the most important skill a man can acquire – learning how to meet women.

Joseph Matthew’s and his book aren’t really as well known as the materials created by David DeAngelo, Mystery, or Neil Strauss, but in my opinion, Joseph Matthew’s is one of the best teachers for men who want to improve their success with women in the market.

Let me explain why I believe this…

The Instructor

As you might know, I place a lot of importance on the person who is actually teaching me the material. Some fraudulent “pick up gurus” like to use the excuse that it doesn’t matter who’s teaching it as long as you get results.

Well, in my experience, the guys who actually practice what they preach are the ones who can help you the most – because chances are they’ve been where you are and know how to find a solution to your problem. The fakers can’t do this.

And out of all the dating advice gurus I’ve come across, Mr. Matthews is, in my opinion, one of the most legitimate.

Mr. Matthew’s story is an incredible one. He is not a good looking guy by his own admission (I believe he claims to look like the lovechild of Tony Soprano). He’s fat, bald, ugly, and by his own admission “terrible with women.”

One of the first chapters in his book goes on to retell the painful (yet humorous) story of how he had an anxiety attack in college that lead him to the brink of suicide, but rather than kill himself, he resolved to cure his intense loneliness.

Through his teachings, you can tell Mr. Matthews is a very introspectful, honest, and heartfelt guy. He seems to have tackled every problem I’ve personally experienced, and then some – everything from low self esteem to wondering what to do with a girl now that he’s gotten her into bed.

His stories about his successes with women – some of them so attractive, he himself can’t believe he got them – are humorous AND informative.

I couldn’t help but feel like Joseph Matthews is the type of guy I could be friends with, hang out with, and learn from, all at the same time. This alone, makes his teachings far more important than most of the people I’ve come across in this market.

The Course

As its title suggests, in this excellent book Joseph Matthews has created the most complete book on approaching women written to date. As Mr. Matthew’s puts it: If you can’t approach a woman, you can’d do anything else!

Because of it’s focus on how to meet women, this is actually the best way to START learning how to pick up and seduce girls, since it focuses so heavily on that first (and some would argue hardest) step.

But what was surprising to me was that the book was actually much more than just a guide on approaching. It actually covers everything you will need to go beyond the approach and into the bedroom.

The Art of Approaching is now in its 3rd edition (Mr. Matthews seems to update the course regularly to keep it current, something which can’t be said for most other advice authors) and the latest incarnation of the Art Of Approaching goes on to explore:

• The Art of Relationship Skills
• The Art of Belief
• The Art of Body Language
• The Art of Confidence
• The Art of Approaching
• The Art of Dating
• The Art of Flirting
• The Art of Storytelling
• The Art of Being Social
• The Art of Seduction

As you can see, not a single aspect of seduction and pick up is skimped over. I found Mr. Matthew’s chapter on Confidence to be exremely insightful and helpful to me personally, since that’s something I (and Mr. Matthews) has struggled with in the past.

Another fantastic chapter in the book covers the art of flirting. Now, you wouldn’t typically think that flirting would be an important skill to learn, but the way Mr. Matthew’s explains it, if you don’t know how to flirt, you’re going to have a hard time generating attraction!

All this information rounds the book out to a very complete 342 pages.

Despite all the different subjects that are covered, the core of the course is still about approaching women. About 1/3rd of the book is devoted to this subject, and none of it seems like filler.
The book is on the longer side for most seduction e-books I have read, and this could be tough for those of you slow readers or those with short attention spans. But it is a faster read than you might think because Mr. Matthews has written in many personal stories which are both instructional and entertaining at the same time.

(This is SUCH a relief, because even good ebooks, like David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating, can often be very dry and hard to read.)

The fact that the book illustrates so many of its principles through the eyes and experiences of Mr. Matthews himself makes it very unique among the books out there. You get to really understand the personality of the author and I think most readers will empathize with him because he shares the lows he came from when he had no skills with women and was very overweight, to how he overcame these limitations by learning the skills he teaches in the book.

A key message I got was that if Mr. Matthews himself could overcome these limitations, than anyone can by following his example.

But the book is not one dimensional despite this personal perspective, as there are many cool examples of the experiences of students that Mr. Matthews has taught, and what’s more there are many stories relating his own experiences as a student learning from some of the top ladies men in the world like Neil Straus (author of The Game), Mystery, and more.

So when you get The Art of Approaching, you are getting the combined knowledge of not only Mr. Matthews, but other masters as well. Some of what you will learn includes:

• Tons of great opener types like joke, opinion, role play, online, direct, situational, compliment openers and more
• The key questions you must ask yourself to succeed
• An extremely in depth examination of body language, both how to display it and read it
• Secret of eye contact
• Best ways and places to meet women
• The fish and hook method of meeting and seducing women
• The two types of flirting and 11 guidelines for how to flirt effectively, plus the secret weapon of innuendo
• The importance of stories and how to tell great stories
• How to develop a great social network and use it to meet tons of women
• 6 tips for how to influence people and women
• and much more…

What is really cool about all this information in the book is how Mr. Matthews ties it all together in stories of his own conquests. The final chapter of the book ties all of what you learn together in the personal story of how he seduces a beautiful model from New York and finally seals the deal when she comes to LA and visits him.

All throughout the book you get the sense that you are reading something by someone who really knows what he is talking about and has devoted a lot of time not just to learning the techniques, but the philosophy behind it all.

There are points in the book where Mr. Matthews goes back hundreds of years to explain how and why women were prized for their virginity and how that still effects their behavior presently, and also talks about how religion has shaped things in the way we think that aren’t very useful for doing well with women and should be questioned, etc.

Overall, this was the ONE book I was impressed with the most.

The Company

I also found the way Mr. Matthews does business to be quite honest and above the board.

I had no issues downloading the course after the purchase, but my friend Bill had a problem with his connection. When we contacted support – easily accessible through a “contact us” link on the front page – we got a reply within the first 12 hours from his customer support staff helping us get Bill his product.

We even went back and “pretended” we lost the course in a computer crash to see how this would be handled by the company. Customer Support immediately gave us access to the course again after supplying our order information. It’s nice to know that if anything ever got screwed up, we could still get access to the course.

Refunds were handled promptly as well. Yes, even though I did enjoy the book and thought it was great, I still asked for a refund just to test and see how it was handled. Fortuneately, The Art Of Approaching staff seems to think it’s best to give people their money back when they ask for it. Always a nice touch.

The company clearly states their terms of service and privacy policy, so should you ever want to know where the company stands, you can find out.

Over-all, the way Mr. Matthews conducts business seems to be quite professional.

The Bad

Though I do enjoy this course and this company, there are a few things that nagged me enough not to give it a full rating of 5 stars.

The first is that you get a LOT of email from Mr. Matthews, who sends out a newsletter twice daily. This can get annoying after a while, but the content of the newsletters is good and always helpful. However, after getting the course, I didn’t feel I needed all the tips and didn’t like seeing my inbox clogged up. You can, however, easily unsubscribe from the emails. But still, it’s annoying.

I also found a few type-os in the book. Nothing too bad, it still reads well and has a professional appearance, but it’s a minor annoyance of mine.

The size of the book is also worrisome, because reading such a long book on the computer can be troublesome at times. You are able to print it out for easy reading without issue, however 300+ pages is a lot of printer inc. I wish Mr. Matthews gave the option of receiving a physical book. But again, this is a minor annoyance.

The Verdict

This is a MUST have course.

During my tests, and the tests of my friends Bill and Larry who help me evaluate these courses, we got the best results from Mr. Matthew’s teachings.

Following his “Bootcamp” instructions laid out in the course, we went from meeting 1-2 girls a night to meeting 12-15. Not all the approaches went well, but they became easier than they had been in the past.

Before long, all three of us got enough confidence to start getting phone numbers of the girls we were meeting and actually getting them out on dates.

After struggling for MONTHS with other courses, this was like a breath of fresh air for all three of us. Going out to meet chicks actually became FUN once we started applying what we learned in the Art Of Approaching.

Using the lines laid out in the course will get you results, but the best results come from doing the confidence building exercises laid out by Mr. Matthews, to help you meet and date the women you desire.

I would also recommend getting the Advanced course if you can afford it. The basic course is $39.95, but the Advanced course is a bit pricey ($147). But it has a lot more supplemental material that is worth getting – including video tutorials that explain some of Mr. Matthew’s more advanced concepts.

That said, the advanced course isn’t necessary to get results. Even just getting the basic course is worth the money. But I got a lot more out of Mr. Matthew’s advanced tactics.

If you would like to check out The Art Of Approaching yourself, click the link below:

Click Here To Check Out The Art Of Approaching (Highly Recommended, Must Buy!)

If you yourself aren’t getting the kind of results you want with women, and in specific if you want to improve your ability to approach them effectively, then you owe it to yourself to check out this great course.

Think you are too overweight, not good looking or rich enough? Joseph Matthews managed to learn to do well with women despite these kinds of obstacles, and tells you step by step how to do the same thing yourself. It won’t happen overnight, but it will happen faster if you get The Art of Approaching for yourself now!

Stay safe,

Jim Jones

Top Product: Double Your Dating

Website: www.doubleyourdating.com
Author: David DeAngelo
Company: David DeAngelo Communications Inc.
Rating: 4 out of 5

Double Your Dating has been around for a while, and it’s generally considered to be the best ebook there is on dating tips for men on the market today. Here is my review of the Double Your Dating eBook.

The Basics
Title: Double Your Dating – What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women
Length: 90 pages
Adobe PDF Format (compatible with both PCs and Macs)

Table of Contents
Part 1: How To Think About Success With Women
Chapter 1: Women Don’t Make Sense
Chapter 2: How I Discovered What Works With Women

Part 2: How To Communicate With Women
Chapter 3: How To Develop A Personality That Is Irresistible To Women
Chapter 4: How To Use Communication And Humor To Attract Women
Chapter 5: On Looks and Body Language

Part 3: Exactly What, When, and How
Chapter 6: The Basics of Style and Class, Plus More On How To Fascinate Women
Chapter 7: Where and How To Meet Women
Chapter 8: Getting Physical
Chapter 9: Keeping Her Attracted To You, Or “How To Have A Long Term Relationship.”

Introduction
Released in 2001, the Double Your Dating ebook is widely considered to be the best dating system for men available on the market. Before Double Your Dating hit the internet, the only options available for men looking to improve their skills with women was a newsgroup, the occasional message board, and hypnosis-based seduction products, none of which were quite acceptable in the mainstream, a trend which Double Your Dating was the first to buck.

David DeAngelo, a former member of the underground “seduction community,” who used to post to the Cliff’s List Seduction Newsletter under the pseudonym Sisonpyh, discarded all other methods being taught at the time and developed his own idea about what attracts women, and encapsulated his findings in this ebook.

His basic philosophy can be boiled down to the now well-accepted notion of “Cocky and Funny,” a phrase David DeAngelo and the success of his ebook and seminars has been able to popularize.

The philosophy behind “Cocky and Funny” is meant to teach men how to play the part of the “Coquette” with women. Coquettes are people who are able to orchestrate a back-and-forth movement between hope and frustration. They bait with the promise of reward – the hope of physical pleasure, happiness, fame by association, power – which always seems to prove elusive; yet this form of “dangling the carrot” in front of their targets only makes women pursue them more.

A Coquette seems totally self-sufficient: they do not need women, they seem to say, and their narcissism proves to be devilishly attractive. Women want to conquer them, but they hold the cards. The strategy of the Coquette is never to offer total satisfaction. The alternating heat and coolness of the Coquette keeps women nipping at their heels.

For most men, the art of being a Coquette is elusive. Before Double Your Dating came along, this skill was either reserved for men who came about this attitude naturally, or men who were abusive assholes. What David DeAngelo did with Double Your Dating was break the art of Coquetting down to a teachable structure that all men could learn to use when dealing with women – something no one else up to that time had been able to do.

The Good
The book is very well-written and professional looking. The font size is normal, so you get a lot of info per page (ie: The font isn’t ballooned up to help fill space and only make the book seem longer than it is). You truly get 90 pages worth of info in this document.

The book is also structured in an easy to read and logical progression. It starts off with a good amount of theory and philosophy, and moves into more concrete techniques designed to teach the reader what to do with women. Compared to the spastic, amateurish, and dis-jointed writing of other seduction products on the market, this book reads like a Godsend. No doubt David DeAngelo had the book edited to read this well.

David DeAngelo also shares a great deal of personal insights and experiences with the reader. One of the best examples of this is found in Chapter 8 of the book, “Getting Physical,” where David D goes into great detail about how he goes from being on a date with a woman to getting down to business (if you know what I mean). This is a great chapter because lots of guys don’t know how to escalate to the physical aspect of a date, but here, David D. shares a first-person example of how he does it in a clear and decisive way. Here’s an example from page 87:

This is a big piece of the puzzle that I’ve figured out… I used to do all kinds of massages and other stuff, but I now use the simple hair stroke test. If they like their hair stroked, they are at VERY LEAST going to be making out with me in short order, period. I’ll occasionally do a hand massage here, or a little neck massage, but next I pull her close to me and cuddle with here… and then land the killer.

Probably the best part of the book is Section 2, which encapsulates the chapters “How To Develop A Personality That Is Irresistible To Women,” “How To Use Communication And Humor To Attract Women,” and “On Looks and Body Language.” This entire section, which encompasses about 37 pages of the book, deals with nothing but strategies on how to attract a woman.

David D breaks down the six things he believes women find attractive. They are:

1. Means (wealth, possessions, gifts to them or providing for them)
2. Power (influence, leadership, safety)
3. Fame
4. Looks (including height)
5. Exclusivity (royalty, already married, hard to get, affiliation)
6. Personality (humor, creativity, romance, intelligence, mystique, etc.)

David D. then goes on to focus on the fact that though 1-5 are out of your control for the most part, number 6 is something you do have complete control over and you can use to your advantage when getting women to be attracted to you. He then goes on to break down personality traits that women find the most attractive. They are:

1. Humor
2. Intelligence and Creativity
3. Education
4. Class and Culture
5. Dominant
6. Thoughtfulness
7. Notices Details
8. Preditcably Unpredictable
9. Enthusiastic, Fun, Happy
10. Adventurous
11. Aggressive
12. Confident/Cocky
13. Expertise
14. Attention
15. Challenging
16. Charming
17. Romantic Imagination and Perspective
18. Good Body Language
19. Sexual Mastery

With that out of the way, David D goes on to explain how you can combine all these traits into your communication and how that can attract women to you. Here’s an excerpt to give you an idea of what David D recommends:

1. Never give a woman a direct answer… unless the answer is NO. This is a big one. If she says “Can we sit here?” I say “No, let’s sit in this one next to it” or if she says “How do you like my dress?” I say “Well, I think that I like it… just give me a few minutes to see it on you” or if she says “Call me tomorrow” I say “No. You call me tomorrow… common, you want me and you know it” Get it?

2. If she complains about you or doesn’t like something, turn it up a notch and do it more. If she says to me “I don’t really like it when you say that” I say “Well then you might want to leave, because I say it a lot” Get it?

3. Women are CONSTANTLY testing to see if they can get you to comply with them, and as soon as you do, they hit the road (or marry you). This took me years to see and understand, but the fact is that when you’re dealing with a powerful, hot woman, she will do all different kinds of things that make no sense at all logically, but all the sense in the world when you understand her mindset. Hot women can have anything they want. What they want is a challenge… something that keeps their interest. Here it comes… If a woman can have anything she wants anytime she wants it, then WHY THE HLL DO GUYS THINK THAT THEY’RE GOING TO BE INTERESTING BY DOING THE SAME THING THAT EVERY OTHER GUY HAS DONE? Duh. Hey, I used to think this way… but then I got a clue. Now, I pay very careful attention, and never let her have what she wants. If she says “Kiss me” I say “No” if she says come over to my house I say “I’m busy right now, I’ll come over later” if she says “I want you so bad, please make love to me” I say “well, I think you need to wait a little longer, and besides, I’m not finished kissing you” Get it? I NEVER give a woman exactly what she asks for… EVER!

4. Always send mixed signals. Tell her I want to be friends, and kiss her. Tell her that what she just did was unacceptable, then go kiss her. Spank her if she does something nice. Also, respond differently to the same thing. For example, one time if she comes over and sits on my lap, I kiss her. Another time I push her off… get it? Never be predictable… NEVER.

But by far, the best stuff that David DeAngelo has to offer in the book is his material on how to tease women. This is really where Double Your Dating shines. Most guys fall into the trap of supplicating to women and being “too nice.” This will usually land you in the dreaded “let’s just be friends” zone.

But when you know how to properly tease a woman, you are able to create sexual tension in your interaction with her, and the use of Cocky/Funny, alternating between hot and cold, just intensifies that tension before it reaches it’s inevitable outcome.

Here’s an example of how David D likes to tease women:

When I first met one particular girl, I took her hand when she got into the car and held it for a few seconds… then took it away saying “No hand holding this early” as if it were her idea… then at lunch, I put out my hand for her to take it, and then when she went to take it, I moved it before she touched me… then did it again… and again saying “No, really…”

Finally, after the meal was finished, I reached out for her hand and she wouldn’t take mine because I had teased her so much, so I actually grabbed her hand and held it and massaged it. This was teasing and teasing. And then when she finally gave up I gave it to her.

Then, when I gave her a hug later on, she kissed me on the cheek/neck a couple of times and I accused her of kissing me a lot etc. (Idea is that she’s into me and she’s the aggressor). One part of this is me doing something (holding her had) and then accusing her of doing it (“no hand holding this early”).

This kind of behavior, sending mixed messages, and flirting doesn’t really make sense to most men, but to women it’s magic.

David D also places a lot of emphasis on being funny. He’s fond of saying that no matter what shortcomings you have, how ugly you may be, that if you can get a woman to laugh consistently, you’ll get her attracted to you.

He goes into detail on how to be funny around women, along with how your voice should sound, what your body language should be like, and the signs to look for to see if a woman is interested in you. He even goes into a few “Cold Reading” methods as well.

He rounds out the book by detailing how to meet women, and how to keep her attracted to you and have a long term relationship.

The Bad
Though the book does read professionally, there are the occasional grammar mistakes, such as missing words or wrong tenses, but they’re so few and far in between, it’s not that big of a deal, and compared to the atrocious writing in other ebooks, not something to really complain about.

One drawback I found when reading Double Your Dating was that sometimes David’s more philosophical sections got a little hard to read. This may have just been my interest wanning, or my ADD acting up, but I consistently found myself skimming over certain parts to get to some of the meatier techniques he lays out in the book.

There are a few things David espouses that I have found, through personal experience, to be wrong. For instance, in the section of the book that teaches men to be funny, he states:

Don’t smile too much, and don’t laugh at your own jokes very often. When you smile or laugh, it releases the tension. If you can keep a straight face, the joke stays funnier longer.

I’ve found that women like it when you smile. I smile very often around women. Smiling is probably the easiest thing to do to make yourself look attractive and give off a good vibe. To read Double Your Dating, you may come away with the impression that you always want to come off as serious around a woman.

His other philosophy of “never give a woman a direct answer unless it’s no” can also be a real deal breaker. I have had some real bad experiences using this tactic. It might be okay to skirt the answer one or two times, but any more than that and it’s gonna stop being cute to the girl and start getting annoying, to the point where they think you’re hiding something from them (which is not a good thing if you’ve just met the girl). Giving women direct answers won’t be the end of the world. If you want to play around a bit and avoid the question one or two times, that’s fine, but never more than that.

In the book, David D also recommends never asking for a woman’s phone number and going for her email address instead, the idea behind this being that women may be hesitant to give out their numbers, because of the dating stigma attached to it, but that they are cool with giving out their email because it’s not as personal, and that you can have an easier time getting a date through this “under the radar” method.

Personally, I’ve found this method to be hit or miss. I usually have better luck asking for numbers than emails. Sending a girl an email is the equivalent of leaving a voice message on their answering machine. It’s out of your hands and up to her to contact you. Not good. Women who don’t check their email often can sit on that for days and by the time they get to it, they may have forgotten you or lost interest. With the number, you can keep calling without leaving a message and catch them on the phone at your convenience. This isn’t to say email and instant messaging are bad forms of communication, but I tend to look at them as secondary to phone numbers.

I also found the section of the book that deals with approaching women quite light. David D does give some good tactics on meeting women, but if you have a fear of approaching or rejection, you’ll find this chapter to be lacking.

Speaking of chapters that are lacking, the final chapter on relationships is only a mere page and a half long, and doesn’t really go into any detail like he did with the attraction stuff. To be fair, though, Double Your Dating isn’t a book about relationship maintenance, it’s about how to meet women. But a substantial chapter on this subject would have been preferable to the 2 or 3 paragraphs David D throws out at the end of the book.

Also – one of the biggest complaints I have about the course is that when you buy it, you’re encouraged to subscribe to David DeAngelo’s interview series, which is $19.95 per month.

Now, some people may not want to commit to $19.95 a month, but you actually have to tell them you DON’T WANT THIS option when ordering. I found myself buying the product and accidentally ordering it because I didn’t notice the option to opt out.

Not only that, but the interview series David DeAngelo puts out isn’t all that great. He offers very little advice on his own, and the people he interviews more often than not are fakers or lamers who have no business giving advice on the subject.

A lot of the interviews are incredibly boring as well. I would definitely recommend not getting this option if you do get the course.

The Company

David DeAngelo’s company is quite professional. You don’t have to worry about not getting a refund or recieving your product after your order. Their customer support is top notch.

They also have their terms and privacy policy clearly accessible from the front page of their website, which is always a good sign.

The Verdict

Definitely Recommend.

Despite a few short comings here and there, Double Your Dating is a fantastic guide for guys looking to increase their success with women. It really lays out some fantastic inner game concepts and solid attraction techniques. Some guys who have real problems with social interactions may not get as much out of this book as average guys, but then again, it’s not written for them. David DeAngelo wrote this book for the “average guy” who populates the mainstream marketplace.

When you go to a Double Your Dating seminar, you will often see normal looking guys who are just looking to do better with women, rather than pathetic, anti-social virgins you may find at other similar events.

Some people argue that Double Your Dating isn’t a complete system, but the ebook is fairly complete in terms of how to attract a woman to you. It may not be the most detailed book on the subject, but it lays out all the basics in a clear and easy to understand way. If you only buy the ebook, as opposed to the multitude of other products with the Double Your Dating banner attached to them, you’ll get a lot out of it.

I highly recommend this book to anybody who’s looking to improve their social life and meet more women. Especially if you’re just starting out with getting this area of your life under control and you don’t know where to start. Every veteran in the seduction community has the Double Your Dating ebook as part of his collection, and you should too.

You can download the Double Your Dating ebook by clicking on the link below:

Check Out Double Your Dating Here!

I hope you enjoyed this review and found it helpful.

Stay safe,

Jim Jones