Learn To Approach Any Woman

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

The single most important skill every man should have is knowing how to approach women, because if you don’t know how to do this, you’re going to be at a serious disadvantage when it comes to meeting your dream girl…

It’s important that you know how to approach a girl the right way. Let’s go over some tactics that will help you to be more successful than the average guy.

Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?

It wasn’t anything you were about to say, or even your intentions. She might have really liked you if you approached her in a different way. But once you freak out a girl, it’s not easy to turn that situation around.

The key to approaching women is to approach them in a NON-THREATENING manner that does not telegraph your interest.

This is known as “coming in under the radar.”

You have to understand that most attractive women get hit on CONSTANTLY, so they’ve trained themselves to simply reject guys at the first sign they’re out to pick them up.

Most men don’t realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don’t want to deal with yet “another pick-up attempt.”

Approaching women can be both easy AND fun when you know how to do it RIGHT.

So what’s the right way to approach a woman?

The first secret is – DO NOT HESITATE!

If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you’re never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it’s important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.

Secondly, know what you’re going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don’t have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.

When it comes to a situation like this, you should probably have a good, proven “pick up line” memorized that will help start a conversation.

Now, when I use the term “pick up line,” I don’t mean the “Nice shirt, want to have sex?” type of line that’ll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!

The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions.

Another thing – when you are approaching women, don’t charge in like you’re going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.

Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That’s why it’s so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you’re talking to girls!

If you’re not comfortable approaching women, the best way to overcome it is to go out there and start approaching women right away! After all, practice makes perfect, right?

The sad fact is, you’re not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news – it gets easier the more you do it!)

If you’re worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you’re doing is approaching women. You’re not asking her out, you’re not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.

That’s it!

This is a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the easier it is. See how many you can talk to in a day and keep trying to beat your score.

Finally, use a “time constraint” when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you’ve only got a minute to talk to her because you’ve got to get back to your friends or whatever you’re doing.

Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you’re talking to, because she won’t feel that she’s committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you’re only a momentary “distraction.” This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.

The beauty of this is that if the conversation picks up and is going well, she’ll forget that you used a time constraint, and you can actually talk to her as long as you want. Using a good time constraint is just a way to make the approach easier in the beginning.

Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.

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