Secrets On How To Pick Up Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Are you struggling when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women? If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Chances are no one you know can help you learn to pick up women. Your friends are probably just as clueless as you are, and your family is of no help at all. Even those “Dating Experts” you see on TV are full of it, because they have to cater to the feminist media to keep their careers on track! (And as we all know, the mainstream media doesn’t like helping guys get laid!)

Understand: Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you’re going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away. Lucky for you, I’m about to share some with you right now…

First off – here’s what you DON’T need to pick up women.

You DON’T need to be “male model” good looking.

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you’re insecure about your looks, don’t sweat it! There’s still hope.

Another thing is – you DON’T need to spend lots of cash or drive flashy cars!

Quite a few of the best Pickup Artists I’ve ever known spend $30 or less when they go out on dates, and more than one of them doesn’t even own a car! (And the ones that do don’t drive anything special!)

If a girl really likes you, she’s not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?

Finally, you DON’T have to be famous, be a certain type of ethnicity or nationality, or anything else you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

When you know the right way to talk to women, nothing else matters.

Unless you’re currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics – after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you’ve learned, you’ll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you’re able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you’re starting out. You don’t have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it’s difficult to pick up women, but there is no better “practice ground” in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

No matter what – if you want to get better, you need to devote some time every day to go out and pick up women. The more you do it, the better you’ll get!

When you’re first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

Remember: The more experience you have, the easier it’ll be.

And what you’re doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!

When you’re going out to pick up women and gain experience, it’s important to look as good as you possibly can!

(Remember I didn’t say you had to be “good looking.” I said you need to “look good.” There’s a difference here. You may not have any say about what you look like, but you have complete control over your appearance – what you wear, how your hair looks, how you smell, etc.)

Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you’re not into fashion and don’t know where to start, ask a female friend who’s very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.

Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory – you don’t NEED to do it. However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you’ll feel!

Keep an out out for every opportunity to pick up women that comes your way. Attractive women are just about everywhere, and if you notice an opportunity to talk to one, don’t let it pass you by!

Remember – ever good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there’s a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

Here’s the structure:

Find the girl.

Meet her.

Start Talking and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps is all you need! You’ll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain rapport with them, you’ll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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