The Art Of Flirting – How To Flirt With Women

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Let me ask you a question…

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Well, there is a reason that happened!

Chances are it is because you did not flirt correctly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

What is the importance of flirting?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

No sexual tension equals no attraction, when there is not attraction, what does this make you?

Yes, that is right; it makes you simply a friend.

So when you know the proper way to flirt with a girl, your chances of attracting her go up exponentially.

Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.

The art of flirting with women is all about communicating your romantic interest in the woman rather than just letting the cat out of the bag.

Mixed signals are what this is.

You communicate one thing yet your words say something very different.

Some of the more common mistakes of flirting with women that men make may include:

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Obvious

Many men are caught up in the excitement of being attracted to a woman, and then they say exactly what they feel. They do not realize that this type of information presentation forces the woman to decide how she may feel about him.

Keep in mind, by not laying the groundwork properly beforehand, you risk the chance of finding rejection from the woman.

MISTAKE #2: They Aren’t Obvious Enough!

On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!

MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: Taking Themselves Too Seriously

Flirting, when done right, is light and fun. When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.

You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what’s the right way to start flirting?

You’re going to want to use as much sexual innuendo as you can. This is a great way to flirt. But the key here is to be SUBTLE.

So for instance, if you’re at a bar, and the girl you’re with orders a drink and then turns to you and asks if you’d like something, you could jokingly say – “You’re not trying to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me, are you?” (Of course, this is said with a wink and a nod.)

Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.

On the other hand, when a woman says something temptingly naughty to you, you might say to her, Stop trying to seduce me, you minx! You know I don’t do that on the first date.

See how that works?

After you begin flirting more often, you will begin to be more apparent concerning your interests, without ever crossing that line.

As you do this, you’ll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

Now the real fun begins.

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