Pick Up Lines That Work – How To Start A Conversation

Author: Joseph Matthews
Website: www.artofapproaching.com

Some pick up lines are just terrible.

How many times have we heard cheesy pick up lines like:

“Did it hurt? When you fell from heaven, did it hurt?”

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

“Did you wash your pants with windex? Because I can see myself in them.”

Let’s face it – if you use lines like these on a girl, she’s not going to give you the time of day.

Because pick of lines such as these, which are bad get too much attention, while encouraging others to consider that all pick up lines are worthless.

And this just isn’t true.

A good pick up line will ACTUALLY help you pick up a woman.

Keep in mind that the purpose of using a pick up line is to begin a conversation.

That is all.

After the woman begins talking with you, then you work your magic of getting her to date you, her telephone number and the emotional connection.

If you cannot begin a conversation, you can do little else.

Because you shouldn’t just be talking to a girl. You should be ENGAGING the girl. Pulling her into a conversation with you is the only sure-fire way to further your agenda.

And guess what? A good pick up line will do that!

When I first started going out to meet women, I was always at a loss of what to say to first meet a girl. I was always trying to think of something to say off the top of my head, and more often than not, I’d miss my opportunity to meet a great girl because it took me too long to think something up.

That is why it’s important to know one or two good pick up lines that actually WORK. Because for those situations where you can’t be original, you need something to help you take action!

But don’t be fooled into thinking you can get away with a line like:

“Do I know you from somewhere?”

This is lame pick up line and women know it, this is not a clever pick up line and makes you look bad.

Also, doing things like asking for directions, telling a girl she looks like a certain celebrity, and complimenting her on a piece of clothing are BAD ways to pick a girl up.

Why is this?

This is because these lines do not engage the woman into a conversation with you, once she answers your question, she may not show interest in conversing with you.

Good pick up lines avoid “yes and no” answers. They are about getting the girl to think about her response, evoking an emotional reaction, and making her WANT to continue to communicate with you.

So how do you engage a girl?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Then you can follow up with a story about how you know a woman who wants to make sure her kid’s zodiac signs are compatible with hers so they will be well behavied as they grow up.

This leads to all kinds of different conversation topics, things like:

1. Astrology 2. Children 3. Pregnancy 4. Marriage 5. Relationships

The places you can go with this type of line are limitless. Here are some of my favorite follow-ups.

“Are you a believer in astrology?” (This can begin conversations about destiny and fate.)

“What sign are you?” (this leads into your sign compatibility with her – HINT: no matter what her sign is, you’re compatible!)

“What do you think of children? You seem like the mothering type.”

This could go on forever, surely, you get the idea.

So as you can see, this pick up line is designed to pull the girl into a deep and interesting conversation, and gives you the opportunity to get to know her better and allow her to become familiar with you.

This is how you begin conversations.

At this point, it’s the easiest thing in the world to get a phone number from a girl, and possibly even set up a first date.

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